5 places not to go on a first date

Posted July 23, 2012 by admin in Self Improvement

The word for today is “ambiance” one of the keys to being a great closer is “ambiance”. Atmosphere is key to setting up your night. If you take your date to a party it sets the tone of a up beat fun night. If you take her to a nice restaurant it sets the tone of a nice laid back night, regardless of where you take her there are certain places you DONT take her. Some places just ruin the mood and are just out of the question and us guys make the mistake everyday.

1. The movies

Besides taking out a second mortgage on your house to pay for the date, going to movies is an awful awful decision purely because the point of a first date is to GET TO KNOW THE WOMAN. Go see Spiderman, Avengers, Batman and any other movie you conned her into seeing by yourself. Besides you Hi jacking the date to turn it into spyke tv’s man law, you can’t get to know a person in a place where your suppose to be QUIET. your not even looking at her guys take my advice and avoid this expensive date killer.

2. Your house

Don’t treat women like their stupid. You can be a Genuine Good guy but inviting her to your house the first time going out is a creep move. Even if that’s not the case you don’t want your date to think that’s all you want ( even if it is) you want to be looked at as a gentlemen not some weirdo who reminds her of a suspect on law and order svu.

3. Her house

See rule number 2

4. A friends house

My friends are great but my friends are also wolves. Taking your first date to a friends house or gathering when there’s no official connection between you two is a recipe for disaster. Why? Because you don’t know her type have t worked your magic. So someone’s else’s magic can be just her type. Now if established she just some “jump off” and it’s open season that’s fine, but if this a girl you think you want to peruse a d I mean really persue then don’t bring your own food to the buffet. Unless your the alpha male of your friends; and I will show you how to be the alpha male in the weeks to come…isolate your lady so her focus is on you and not your professional athlete friend.

5. Chain restaurants

When is the last time you talked to a woman and she told you she ha the best time with her date at ” Applebee’s.” Or you you guys went to “red lobster” and the panties just melted off I her?… Go ahead I’ll wait. The answer is NEVER. Don’t ever take a date to a chain restaurant on your first date it’s cheap, it’s tacky, and it’s definitely not a panty dropper. You have to make her feel as if you actually put thought into the date (even if you didn’t). The more thought you put into the date the less thought she puts into dropping those draws (underwear I’m from the south)

When it’s all said and done I talk a lot of shit about how to take control of a date, but the first impression is the most important. Make it a night she won’t forget and she will do the exact same. Trust me

Orrin Carter

@odiggler